Upon reflection, I should add a 2019 overall theme. Not just a single word, but a whole theme. Just be yourself.
This theme seems to be popping up lately. It has appeared in my personal life in dealing with a pre-adolescent daughter. It is in books that I have been reading. And it has been in a multitude of podcasts I have been listening to.
Looking back on my life; for the most part, I have always chosen to be myself. There have been moments here an there where I have questioned who I am. University would have been a testing point. When I first moved away from home to university, I was trying to figure out a way to meet friends. I had a choice to rush for a sorority with my cousins, or I could join a different student organization on my own. I chose the latter. The sorority to me was not the perfect fit. I felt like I was “buying” friends. Instead I joined AIESEC, an international student organization that focuses on facilitating international work exchanges. (BTW, this is where I met my husband). Overall, AIESEC was a better fit for me. For starters, there was no pressure to belong. Everyone was there because they had a passion.
Not everybody needs to love you, because you need to love who you are. You just need to find your tribe.
Shefali Tsabary
My oldest daughter is starting down the road of self-discovery. The joys of pre-adolescence. She is in dance, and is at the age where she is noticing favoritism, along with trying to figure out where she fits in on her team. Some of the other girls have been bullying my daughter and a couple of her friends. They are among the youngest in the group, and are not necessarily the strongest dancers in the group. She loves dance and is one of those kids who needs to work at it a bit more than others. I told her to dance her heart out in the back, and to be my shining star. I also have told her to figure out where some of her other strengths may lie. This year, she tried a new style of dance and is loving it. You can certainly tell which dances are her favorites.
Focus on the gifts. Don’t focus on the weaknesses, because there are other people that compliment your weaknesses, and you will compliment their’s.
Deepak Chopra
OFF THE SHELF
I have decided to dust this book off the shelf and re-read it. I read it quite a few years ago, and I have felt a calling to it again. As the theme of my year continues, it is so important to be yourself. Be true to yourself in every way. Figure out what your life looks like to you.
QUOTABLE
All that matters is what’s true for you, and if you can stay connected to that without straying, you will be a mighty superhero.
Jen Sincero – You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life